June 3, 2010  

Relatives as Parents Groups – June meetings

The Hancock County Children’s Council will celebrate the end of the school year, by providing our Relatives As Parents group meetings on Tuesday (EVENING, June 8th, 2010 from 5:30-7:30pm and Wednesday (DAYTIME), June 9th, 2010 from 10:30am-12:30pm at Downeast Health Services, 52 Christian Ridge Road, Ellsworth. If you are interested in participating in either of these FREE mutual support groups, please call Candy Eaton at 667-5304 ext. 261. Our groups will take a summer break and resume in September.

Are you one of the following types of grandparent caregivers?

· Custodial grandparents have legal custody of their grandchildren; they provide daily care and decision-making tasks. The focus on this type of care-giving is on the grandchild and providing them with a sense of security.

· “Living with” grandparents provide daily care for their grandchildren, but do not have legal custody. The child’s parent may or may not live in the home. These grandparents focus on providing an economically and emotionally stable environment for the child, and often on helping the parent. Because the grandparent does not possess legal custody, he or she has no way of protecting the child from an unsuitable or dangerous parent.

· “Day care” grandparents focus on helping the child’s parent and on fulfilling their own needs. These grandparents tend to be the least affected by their caretaking role because the children return home at the end of the day.

The Hancock County Children’s Council, a program of Downeast Health Services Inc., in partnership with Maine Kids-Kin, seeks to support families who are raising their relatives’ children in Hancock County. Many families have recently undertaken the unexpected responsibility of caring for a relative’s child. In Maine, over 11,000 children with their grandparents, aunts, uncles, or with another relative who are not their parents. Even so, many relatives feel they are in this alone. These relatives’ lives are complicated, yet they are experienced parents and bring history and past lessons to a new relationship with their relatives’ children. Throughout Hancock County, there are others who share many similar experiences and feelings. To learn more about Maine Kids-Kin and its services, visit www.mainekids-kin.org or call 1-866-298-0896.

The Hancock County Children’s Council collaborates with many local partners to strengthen Maine’s families. Please call 667-5304 ext. 261, email children@downeasthealth.org or visit our website at www.downeasthealth.org for additional information on parenting classes, child development and family resources available in Hancock County.