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Positive Identity
You can nurture, celebrate, and
affirm young people’s positive identity.
Figuring out who we are and how we
fit in the world is a lifelong process, and not an easy one, for
many. But numerous studies have shown that a positive attitude and
high self-esteem really do have the power to brighten a young
person’s future. In the developmental assets framework, those ideas
come under the heading of positive identity.
Simply put, young people are more likely to thrive (and less likely
to get into risky behaviors) when they:
- Believe that they have the power
to influence the things that happen to them;
- Feel good about themselves and
their abilities; and
- Believe that their life has
purpose and meaning and that their future will be positive.
You can help the young people in your
neighborhood, school, workplace, and home gain these important
qualities and beliefs. Here are some ideas for getting started:
- Appreciate them for who they
are. Young people are healthiest when they learn to value
and like themselves regardless of what they look like, how well
they do in school, or how good they are at sports, music, or
other activities. In a culture that focuses on appearance and
achievement, caring adults can make a critical difference by
valuing individual young people for their own particular gifts,
talents, skills, contributions, and potential.
- Commit to helping all young
people toward a positive future. Research show that, in
general, boys have more positive perceptions of themselves than
girls do – regardless of their abilities – so watch for time
when girls can benefit from a little extra encouragement,
support, and praise. Having a strong, positive cultural or
ethnic identify can help adolescents form positive personal
identities as well.
- Show them how to do something
practical (like change a tire or plan and cook a meal), then
ask them to teach you something, too. In order to develop
confidence in their abilities and to believe their actions and
decisions matter, young people need opportunities to experience
self-reliance, responsibility, and being resources to others.
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