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Constructive Use of Time
You can help young people find
activities that make good use of their time...
If you talk with young people about
using their time constructively, you’ll probably hear one of two
common refrains.
One is, “So much to do, so little time.” That sigh is most likely to
come from a young person with lots of opportunities – like teams,
clubs, youth centers, and music lessons – to choose from.
The other is, “Oh, there’s nothing to do!” That groan is most likely
to come from a young person who hasn’t yet discovered, or for some
reason can’t access, the activities he or she would really enjoy.
The key is to help young people strike a balance between
unstructured activities and structured ones. Young people’s activity
options may range from being at home (alone or with family or
friends, studying, doing chores, or relaxing) to participating in
school-sponsored activities (such as teams or clubs), hanging out in
public places or at friends’ homes, or attending youth groups or
centers, music lessons, or religious services.
At their best, activities for young people involve learning,
developing new skills, using their creativity, being with other
caring youth and adults, and interacting with their families and
friends in positive ways.
Here are some keys to constructive use of time:
- Balance is essential. Too
much involvement can lead to stress, anxiety, and too little
personal time. Too little involvement can be a sign of
depression, isolation, or some other unhealthy situation.
- Young people need
opportunities to play and be creative. Studies show that
time spent in play and games declines by more than half as
children mature into adolescence. Involvement in music, arts and
sports can encourage youth to tap into their playful,
spontaneous energy.
- Different young people need
different things. For an extroverted member of the debate
team, quiet time in nature might seem intimidating or scary at
first. For a shy person not involved in any school clubs or
activities, a one-on-one apprenticeship in glassblowing or car
repair might be just the ticket to a new interest.
- Adolescents want and need to
“try on” different ways of being. A young person who
struggles and feels out of place in school may excel and be a
leader in a less traditional setting, thus building a sense of
competence and confidence not experienced anywhere else.
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