REMEMBER
Most rapes are committed by someone known to the victim.
COMMUNICATE your limits and desires clearly.
That means letting
your date know where you want to eat, what movies you want to see and when
and where you want (or don't want) physical contact.
AVOID being alone in isolated locations.
Most rapes occur out of
earshot of other people, in parked cars and empty houses.
STAY SOBER.
Most rapes occur while one or both individuals are
under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.
If you are in a situation that doesn't
feel right, listen to your inner voice that says "I'm
uncomfortable" AND...
ACT ON YOUR INSTINCTS.
If it is possible to do so, leave the
uncomfortable situation quickly. If things start to get out of hand, be
loud in protesting. It is helpful to plan ahead what you might do if you
are in a sexually dangerous situation such as making a plan to scream,
run, act crazy, or hit the perpetrator. Whatever you choose to do or not
to do, sexual assault is never your fault.
GO ON GROUP/DOUBLE DATES.
If you are unsure of a new
acquaintance or are going on a "blind date," this can give you
the opportunity to get to know the person better before being alone with
them.
